When I facilitate a reunion, so to speak, between the sitter and their departed loved one(s), I feel gratitude and humility.  I may see or feel the departed on the upper left side of my outer body.  In most cases, Spirit will appear in a healthy state and often younger than when they died.   Other times, my awareness of Spirit may be a feeling and sensing in my deepest inner being. The overall experience for me is sacred and rewarding.